I'll begin with the Coital Alignment Technique because its simplicity
and effectiveness in helping a woman achieve an orgasm makes it a
valuable addition to your repertoire.
CAT
In this position, the woman lies on top-face to face-with her legs inside those of her lover. This
squeezes the penis fairly tightly and so caution must be exercised. She
then shimmies upwards an inch or two on his pelvis so that her clitoris
and surrounding region will be rubbed by his pubic bone. The movements
made in the CAT, either circular or as small thrusts (or both-be
creative!), allow a woman to mimic the sensations she gives herself
when masturbating. The CAT is ideal as a second or third position when
both lovers are aroused and perhaps the man needs slowing down while
she needs now to concentrate on the right stimulation to build to
orgasm. It also allows the man to rest after he has been engaged in
more vigorous thrusting in other positions.
STARFISH
The lovers can now move into the Starfish. Here, the woman brings both her knees towards her chest and rests her feet at the sides of his chest or on tops of his shoulders. He holds her knees and can open them, yielding different sensations for both lovers. The Starfish is so named because she looks like a starfish against his kneeling posture. The woman needs to be flexible, and the man needs a reasonable level of fitness in order to take control of the thrusting because his partner remains stationary in such a pose. In this position, they can clasp hands or he can lean on his arms on the bed.
The Sling
Standing and facing each other, the woman lifts one leg and the man
“slings” his arm underneath it to hold it in the air. Depending on her
level of flexibility, he should raise or lower his arm to make this
position as comfortable and pleasurable as possible for her. If she's
very supple, he can raise her leg high, yielding a very open pose. She
can hold onto him with one hand while using the other to stroke his or
her own exposed genitals.
The Puppet
A variation on the Strip Search position, here the woman edges away
from the wall she's been leaning on and falls forwards from the waist
as if to touch the floor (like a puppet whose strings have been cut).
She needs flexibility and the man must hold her hips firmly to
stabilize her during his thrusting movements. This is an excellent
position for a woman who likes to feel her partner's penis against her
cervix.
The Wheelbarrow
You can move fluidly from the Puppet into the Wheelbarrow. The woman is
still bent at the waist. Now her lover picks up one or both of her legs
(depending on his strength) as she rests her hands on the floor, or she
may prefer to lean on her forearms. The Wheelbarrow is incredibly
erotic as it opens up the woman's vulva for him to see. However, it
does take strength and so the couple may wish to stay in the position
for a few thrusts only before moving into another.
The Showman
This is not a position for novices. In the Showman, the woman kneels at
the edge of the bed while he stands on the floor facing her. She arches
back, thrusting her hips forwards while he controls penetration by
holding her around the hips. The couple need to hold each other tightly
in order to keep their balance. It may end up as a transition pose from
a standing position to moving onto the bed.
