Heck, if a man like Ashton will pass up budding starlets for mother-of-three Demi, there must be certain upsides to a woman of experienceand not just in her, ahem, bedside manner. Its a huge allure for young men because heres a sophisticated, attractive woman in control of her own life, explains Valerie Gibson, author of Cougar: A Guide For Older Women Dating Younger Men. Often, she doesnt want to get married and doesnt want children. For a young man, shes a sexy, exciting companion.

If youre dating a woman whos older than you or are open to the experience you need to learn the rules of this kind of romance. To help you along, heres advice on how to impress a woman of a certain age.

Do talk her talk
Your more experienced date may very well be able to party like a coed, but at some point shes going to want to relax with a drink and uh-oh talk. Above everything, an older woman would like to have a decent conversation, advises Gibson. Problem is, with a generation gap, youll have to work a bit harder, since gems like Whats your major? and Did you see the new O.C.? are suddenly moot. Ask her questions about her job, her hobbies, what type of music she likes. Just dont be discouraged if you cant find common ground. So what if shes a wine enthusiast, but youre a beer man? Ask her to pick out a glass of red she thinks youd enjoy. Accept that this relationship, however serious, will be built less on common ground and more on exploring new territory.

Dont play around
If you want to land an older woman, then the only time you should be playing games is when you turn on your Xbox. That means ditching those dating rules you developed in high schoollike waiting days to call in order to make yourself look cool. The wonderful thing about being older is that you just dont have time for games, explains Sarah Winter, coauthor of Older Women, Younger Men. If a guy tries that three-day rule, Im already thinking hes too insecure to handle a relationship with me. The solutions simple: Just act like you feel, not how you think you should according to some Seinfeldian dating protocol. If you like her, say so. If you want to call her, do it. Since an older woman is more likely to be further along in her career than you are, she may insist on paying most of the time, but do be a gentleman and offer to buy dinner. And if she calls you, dont wait until the fourth ring to pick up, Fonz. (If you dont get that reference, feel free to ask her.)

Do stay cool
Burt Reynolds and a 19-years-older Dinah Shore made waves in the 70s when word broke that they were an item, and 30 years later the public still goes slack-jawed over Ashton and Demiproving that the older woman-younger man relationship may be the last taboo in dating. And the uncomprehending responses arent confined only to Hollywood love lives. Youll have to deal with looks and remarks from friends, family, and even strangers. Dont date an older woman if you cant handle that attention, advises Gibson. But if youre deft, youll not only cope, youll impress your lady with your maturity and charm. That stodgy couple one table over insists on gawking? Turn, smile, and smoothly say, I dont blame you for staring. Shes beautiful, isnt she?

Dont mention the numbers
You dont need to be a mind-reader to know that women, no matter how poised and confident, arent keen on being reminded of their age. In this case, that also means not constantly referencing the spread between your years and hers. A line like, Its so great that we get along despite the generation gap, sounds good in your head, but comes across as, Im glad we get along even though youre so old. Besides, its your personalities, not your birthday candles, that are compatibleand thats where you should concentrate. So please, avoid asking questions like, Did video games exist yet when you were a kid?

Do act your age
Fact is, if she wanted to date a man her age, she would, so dont pressure yourself to act more sophisticated than you are. Younger men knock themselves out of the box psychologically because they think they have nothing to offer, explains Winter. But the reason that somebody like me is attracted to younger guys is that their minds are more open. They offer spontaneity and fun. When 24-year-old Beecher Smith-Stackhouse met a woman twice his age at a San Francisco bar, he didnt think she would be interested in hitting a nearby house party that his friends were throwing later that night. When I mentioned it offhand, she just lit up and said, Lets go! he remembers. We ended up doing shots and making out in the hallway. In this instance, exploring her less mature side can be a huge kickfor both of you!

Let me add one more thing to this....please don't tell her that she could "teach" you soooo much..... She probably doesn't want to have to 'teach' someone what to do, she just wants someone that knows how to 'do it'!!! I do know, for a fact, that I don't want to have to teach anyone the basics of what to do in the bedroom!

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