Over the last several years that I've known
my wife, I've been really intrigued by the thought of watching while
she has sex with another man.

  I'd like to talk to men and women who have anything to say about
this type of thing - people who have done it or would like to. Or,
maybe it's just a fantasy of yours that you wouldn't ever really do.

  I get annoyed by those people that think that a couple might want
to get into something like this because "he's not man enough to please
her." I think it's much deeper than that. I suppose everyone has their
own logic as to why this works for them.

  This is not something that we have done yet but it could happen at
some point in the future. We're not there yet - but it's my biggest
fantasy.

  I am VERY visual and the thought of watching as my wife is
pleasured is a huge turn-on for me. I wouldn't want her to do it for
only that reason. I want her to be REALLY into it. I want to see her
attract another man, work her magic and find herself getting fucked
hard  - the way she likes it most. This is a really simplistic way of
explaining it, but I want this blog to be less of a soapbox and more of
a continuous discussion where I can go into more detail as they relate
to your posts.

 Hope to hear from you.